On Stability, Super Heros, And a Chance to See Ellen

We are half way through January, and I am still in the honeymoon phase of the possibility it brings.  There is something very uplifting about January.  It’s a fresh start. A new life page.  And I am still contemplating the possibility before me.  Now, I fully realize that every new day is a similar opportunity, yet a new year, by virtue of its time distance to its next anniversary, January causes me to pause longer and consider possibility more deeply.

What do I want my life to look like?  What is the vision I want to focus on as I move forward?

To that end, I have been working a bit on my vision board… which is actually just images I’ve stuck up on a cupboard wall as I’ve found them.  The images are representative of things I want to materialize in my life – some continually, some eventually.  I’d like to share with you some of what is up there so far (in no particular order):

Work Stability – one image which is not in this post is a picture of my work photo id where the expiry date of March 31st has been changed to “not applicable”.  I want to say “good-bye” to short-term jobs, and “hello” to a position where I have more stability, benefits, and means to support my family.

Transportation – Sometimes it is hard to plan for major purchases when your main concern is getting through the short term.  My recent issues with my van have made me realize that I need to put safe, reliable van to my list of goals.  My current transportation isn’t going to last forever. And while I’m still no closer to a long term achievement plan, it’s on the visualization radar.

A home that is mine – I’ve posted before about my dream home.  January just makes me want it all the more.  Perhaps it is my hunger for stability, or my desire to feel some sense of permanence, or some intrinsic need for roots, but so much has to align for this particular thing to materialize.  You not only need saved resources, but your life needs some provable permanence before someone will lend you the money to purchase a home (lottery wins also gratefully accepted).  So this one is definitely in the “eventually” category, and perhaps belongs more in the centre of the wall, but it’s in the visualization lense, if only the universe will comply.

Be of service – Would you just look at this dear face.  He takes this superhero stuff very seriously. He makes me smile. He’s living the dream.  And you know, service can mean a really wide range of things.  Sometimes it only takes a very small thing to make a big difference to someone.  I want to be cognizant of areas where I can be of service to others.  I think the world would be such a better place if we all reached out a little more often.  A snazzy cape and a cool pair of boots would be a bonus.

Dream Big.  Believe. – For this I have chosen the cover of the December 2009 issue of O magazine.  Here’s why…  To me, this is representative of possibility and belief in one’s dreams despite obstacles.  Last January, Ellen Degeneres set the goal to be on the cover of O magazine.  At the time it seemed an outlandish reach of possiblity.  Apparently it was not, as by December 2009 she was on the cover.  I want that kind of faith in vision.  I want to shoot for the life I crave, however out of reach it may seem.  I want to act in ways that make my vision materialize.  Ellen has given me that sense that things can happen if you put it out there.

By the way, this year her focus is world domination.  Seriously.  In sort of a non-serious way.  Her newsletter specifies “the real goal is to reach out to countries around the world and show our love.” I really hope she succeeds.  Because lots of stuff in the world stinks right now, and a little love might just make a great deal of difference.  (As an aside, in one of her world domination attempts to reach Canada, she has opened a contest specifically for Canadians where they could win tickets to her birthday show. How cool would that be?)

And there you have it… the dream so far.  What is your dream? Are you focussed on your goals?  What images represent what you want from life?  I hope you share.


2 Responses to “On Stability, Super Heros, And a Chance to See Ellen”

  1. 1 Christina January 15, 2010 at 3:14 pm

    I so love this! Though it is not the way my own mind works – I am not visual, I make lists 🙂 And yes, back after my divorce I did make a list of things each year (with the new year relatively coinciding with my birthday, January has always been a milestone month for me). For a long time I had a list on my bathroom mirror of goals. The big one for me was to own my home before I was 40. I actually reached that when I was 38 😉 Since then I have pretty much been without a Big Goal, but then, I don’t feel a drive or need for one now either. Which is fine, because I also think that a huge part of life is learning to enjoy those goals once you reach them.

    Oh, and Ellen is a huge favorite of mine as is Oprah. That was so much fun watching her crusade 😉

  2. 2 Quadelle January 16, 2010 at 11:17 am

    Great idea to have a vision board! Is it new? If you’ve been doing it for a while, does it work for you?

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